also update AuthFallback database
* re-write fallback auth to use alias or ssbid
* replace Create() with SetPassword() which does an upsert
* Add reset tokens to sqlite
* add test for SetPassword with reset token
* fill in sid and sc
* fix logout
* cascade member removal
* fix links
* trim suffix from signature
* fix /sse/login link
* fix sse links and filenames
* fix logout
* fix typos
* fix test compilation
* fix bridge test
* correct alias url test
* add some comments
* fix potentiall "can't send" deadlock on bridge
some documentation and license headers
* implement SetRole on sqlite
* add dropdown form to members table
* add http endpoint for processing
* Add comment to denied keys overview
* update ban remove confirm page
* create consolidated schema with new members table
* update interfaces
* remove allow_list and replace it with members
* update roomdb types
* rename User to Member
* add role enums
* update insert-user