refactor: use adapted upstream detach=false logic [ci skip]

See coop-cloud/organising#607.

pkg/upstream/stack/options.go

@@ -7,9 +7,12 @@ type Deploy struct {
 	ResolveImage     string
 	SendRegistryAuth bool
 	Prune            bool
+	Detach           bool
+	Quiet            bool
 }
 
 // Remove holds docker stack remove options
 type Remove struct {
 	Namespaces []string
+	Detach     bool
 }