start-first by default, stop-first for host mode

compose.host.yml

@@ -3,6 +3,9 @@ version: "3.8"
 
 services:
   app:
+    deploy:
+      update_config:
+        order: stop-first
     ports:
       - target: 80
         published: 80

compose.yml

@@ -30,6 +30,7 @@ services:
     deploy:
       update_config:
         failure_action: rollback
+        order: start-first
       labels:
         - "traefik.enable=true"
         - "traefik.http.services.traefik.loadbalancer.server.port=web"